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Experiencing abuse or other harms can be scary and overwhelming. Filing for a protection order shouldn’t be. Protection orders can be an important safety tool. Talking to an advocate about protection orders and safety planning can be a helpful first step in the process.

What is a Protection Order?

A protection order* is a civil court order that is meant to protect an individual from harm or threats by another person. Protection orders are civil court orders filed for by a petitioner, the person being harmed, against a respondent, the person who is restrained by the order.

There are six types of civil protection orders available in Washington State that vary depending on the type of harm experienced and the relationship between the petitioner and respondent.

*In other states, a protection order may also be referred to as a protective order or a restraining order.

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Respondent information

Domestic Violence Protection Order

Purpose and qualifying abuse:

  • A Domestic Violence Protection Order (DVPO) is a court order that can prohibit contact or other specific behaviors, such as abuse, threats, stalking or harm, committed by current or former intimate partners, family members, or household members.
  • Abuse includes: physical harm, threats of harm, unlawful harassment, nonconsensual sexual acts, stalking, and coercively controlling behaviors.
    • This includes threats or abusive behaviors that occur online.
  • A single incident may qualify someone to file for a DVPO. Please keep in mind that courts will need enough details to thoroughly evaluate the facts of the case to determine if the legal threshold to issue an order has been met.

What can a DVPO do?

  • Prohibit acts of domestic violence
  • Exclude the restrained party, and/or prohibit them from knowingly coming within a specific distance, from petitioner’s work place, school, residence, petitioner’s person, etc.
  • Prohibit contact, including cyber harassment
  • Order the temporary removal of firearms, dangerous weapons, and any concealed pistol license(s)
  • Remove the restrained person from shared residence
  • Protection for minor children, including temporary custody and visitation schedule, as appropriate. (Note:  This is not a formal custody order or parenting plan)
  • Grant essential possessions (examples: use of vehicle, medicine, tools of the trade, pets)
  • Order restrained person to engage in treatment or counseling, as appropriate
  • Other relief

Criteria:

A DVPO may be filed by a family or household member. Petitioners must be one of the following:

  • Current or former spouses or domestic partners
  • Current or former dating relationship
  • Parents of a child in common (unless child was conceived through sexual assault)
  • Current or former cohabitants as intimate partners
  • Related by blood, marriage, domestic partnership, or adoption
  • People who live or lived together as roommates
  • People with a parent-child relationship, including stepparents and stepchildren, grandparents and grandchildren, or a parent’s intimate partner and children

Sexual Assault Protection Order

Purpose and qualifying abuse:

  • A Sexual Assault Protection Order (SAPO) is a court order that can prohibit contact and specific behaviors from someone who has engaged in any nonconsensual sexual acts and/or penetration.
  • A single incident may qualify someone to file for a SAPO. Please keep in mind that courts will need enough details to thoroughly evaluate the facts of the case to determine if the legal threshold to issue an order has been met.

What can a SAPO do?

  • Prohibit acts of nonconsensual sexual conduct and other forms of abuse or harm
  • Exclude the restrained party, and/or prohibit them from knowingly coming within a specific distance, from petitioner’s workplace, school, residence, petitioner’s person, etc.
  • Prohibit contact, including cyber harassment
  • Order the temporary removal of firearms, dangerous weapons, and any concealed pistol license(s)
  • Protection for minor children.
  • Grant essential possessions (examples: use of vehicle, medicine, tools of the trade, pets)
  • Order restrained person to engage in treatment or counseling, as appropriate
  • Other relief

Criteria:

Though it is an option, this order is not intended for petitioners who have a current or former intimate partner, family or household member relationship with the person you are filing against.

No relationship is required to file an SAPO, however there are certain restrictions. Petitioners must be one of the following:

  • A person age 15 or older filing on behalf of themselves or a minor if they are the parent, guardian, or custodian
  • A person age 15 to 17 filing on behalf of themselves and on behalf of a minor who is a family or household member if chosen to do so by the minor
  • An interested person on behalf of a vulnerable adult
  • An interested person on behalf of an adult who does not qualify as a vulnerable adult, but who cannot file for themselves. Must demonstrate the petitioner is interested in the adult’s wellbeing and the court’s intervention is necessary

Stalking Protection Order

Purpose and qualifying abuse:

Purpose and qualifying abuse:

  • A Stalking Protection Order (SPO) is a court order that can be filed against someone who is engaging in criminal stalking behavior or cyber harassment.
  • Stalking includes repeated attempts to contact, monitor, and/or track or follow someone’s whereabouts, where those behaviors scare or threaten that individual’s safety.
    • This includes threats or abusive behaviors that occur online.

What can a Stalking Protection Order do?

  • Prohibit contact of any kind, including cyber harassment
  • Exclude the restrained party, and/or prohibit them from knowingly coming within a specific distance, from petitioner’s work place, school, residence, petitioner’s person, etc.
  • Order the temporary removal of firearms, dangerous weapons, and any concealed pistol license(s)
  • Other relief

Criteria:

Though it is an option, this order is not intended for petitioners who have a current or former intimate partner, family or household member relationship with the person you are filing against.

No relationship is required to file an SPO, however there are certain restrictions. Petitioners must be one of the following:

  • A person age 15 or older filing on behalf of themselves or a minor if they are the parent, guardian, or custodian  
  • A person age 15 to 17 filing on behalf of themselves and on behalf of a minor who is a family or household member if chosen to do so by the minor 
  • An interested person on behalf of a vulnerable adult 
  • An interested person on behalf of an adult who does not qualify as a vulnerable adult but who cannot file for themselves. Must demonstrate the petitioner is interested in the adult’s wellbeing and the court’s intervention is necessary

Vulnerable Adult Protection Order

Purpose and qualifying abuse:

  • A Vulnerable Adult Protection Orders (VAPO) is a court order that can prohibit contact and other specific behaviors from someone who has engaged in abandonment, abuse, financial exploitation, neglect or threats thereof, against a vulnerable adult. It’s important to note that vulnerable adult is a legal determination; see the criteria section for specific definitions.
  • A single incident qualifies someone to file for a VAPO. Please keep in mind that courts will need enough details to thoroughly evaluate the facts of the case to determine if the legal threshold to issue an order has been met.

What can a VAPO do?

  • Prohibit contact of any kind, and be tailored to individual needs.
  • Exclude the restrained party, and/or prohibit them from knowingly coming within a specific distance, from petitioner’s workplace, school, residence, petitioner’s person, etc.
  • Order the temporary removal of firearms, dangerous weapons, and any concealed pistol license(s)
  • Require the respondent to give an accounting of the vulnerable adult’s income or other resources, if the respondent had control of the vulnerable adult’s assets
  • Other relief

Criteria:

A vulnerable adult is:

  • Someone over 60 years old without functional, mental, or physical ability to care for themself 
  • Someone 18 years or older who is incapacitated and has a development disability, is living in a licensed facility, or has at home care

To file a VAPO petitioners must be one of the following:

  • The vulnerable adult, or interested person on behalf of a vulnerable adult
  • Guardian, conservator or limited guardian or conservator of the vulnerable adult
  • An interested person on behalf of the vulnerable adult 
  • Someone working for Washington State Department of Social and Health Services (DSHS) with consent from the vulnerable adult, unless consent cannot be given due to the vulnerable adult’s disability or lack of capacity

Anti-Harassment Protection Order

Purpose and qualifying abuse:

  • An Anti-Harassment Protection Order (AHPO) is a court order that can prohibit contact and specific behaviors by someone whose behavior alarms, annoys or harasses that serve no legitimate purpose.
  • These orders may include the threat of violence, an act of violence or repeated harassment.
    • This includes threats or abusive behaviors that occur online.
  • Either a single incident or a course of conduct must be demonstrated to qualify someone to file for an AHPO.  Please keep in mind that courts will need enough details to thoroughly evaluate the facts of the case to determine if the legal threshold to issue an order has been met.

What can an AHPO do?

  • Exclude the restrained party, and/or prohibit them from knowingly coming within a specific distance, from petitioner’s workplace, school, residence, petitioner’s person, etc.
  • Prohibit contact, including cyber harassment
  • Order the temporary removal of firearms, dangerous weapons, and any concealed pistol license(s)
  • Grant essential possessions (examples: use of vehicle, medicine, tools of the trade, pets)
  • Order restrained person to engage in treatment or counseling, as appropriate
  • Other relief

Criteria:

Though it is an option, this order is not intended for petitioners who have a current or former intimate partner, family or household member relationship with the person you are filing against.

No relationship is required to file an AHPO, however there are certain restrictions. Petitioners must be one of the following:

  • A person age 15 or older filing on behalf of themselves or a minor if they are the parent, guardian, or custodian  
  • A person age 15 to 17 filing on behalf of themselves and on behalf of a minor who is a family or household member if chosen to do so by the minor 
  • An interested person on behalf of a vulnerable adult 
  • An interested person on behalf of an adult who does not qualify as a vulnerable adult but who cannot file for themselves. Must demonstrate the petitioner is interested in the adult’s wellbeing and the court’s intervention is necessary

Extreme Risk Protection Order

Purpose and qualifying abuse:

  • An Extreme Risk Protection Order (ERPO) is a court order that orders the temporary removal and prohibition of firearms and concealed pistol licenses if the court makes a finding that the individual is an imminent risk of danger to themselves or others. Family, household members, or law enforcement may petition the court for an ERPO when there is demonstrated evidence that the person poses a significant danger.
  • A person who is subject to an ERPO cannot purchase, receive, control, possess of access firearms while the order is in place.
  • A single incident qualifies someone to file for an ERPO. Please keep in mind that courts will need enough details to thoroughly evaluate the facts of the case to determine if the legal threshold to issue an order has been met.

What can an ERPO do?

  • Order the temporary removal of firearms and any concealed pistol license
  • Temporarily prohibit the purchase and possession of firearms

Criteria:

To file for an ERPO, petitioners must be 18+ and connected to the respondent in one of the following ways:

  • Current or former spouses or domestic partners
  • Current or former dating relationship
  • Parents of a child in common
  • Current or former cohabitants as intimate partners
  • Related by blood, marriage, domestic partnership, or adoption
  • People who live or lived together as roommates
  • A biological or legal parent or child of the respondent, including stepparents and stepchildren, and grandparents and grandchildren
  • Law enforcement officers or agencies
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Safety Planning

Filing for a protection order has many steps and is best done by making an informed decision about whether a protection order is right for you.  Your safety is of utmost importance. Before filing, consider creating a safety plan to help anticipate and address potential areas of risk or exposure to harm. A safety plan is a personalized, practical plan designed and informed by your experience and knowledge of the person causing harm.  Safety planning is an ongoing process to help mitigate risk if you are experiencing abuse, preparing to leave an abusive situation, or stay safe after you leave.

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Filing Process

When filing a protection order, there are specific forms that need to be completed and submitted to your local courts detailing the abuse, threats or qualifying acts you have experienced. A judicial officer will review your petition for a protection order and may issue a temporary order, followed by a hearing to determine if a longer-term order is necessary. Learn more about the filing process and access tools to get started.

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Statement Writing Tips

The statement (or narrative) you include in your petition is your sworn statement of the events, abuse or harms that have occurred to the court.  Actual or approximate dates/times and details of what occurred are critically important so the court can assess whether an order is appropriate.  Please keep in mind that experiences of trauma can impact one’s sequential memory, making it difficult to recall details of abuse. If possible, seek the support of an advocate or friend to help ease the burden of writing your statement. Here are some important tips to keep in mind as you are writing your statement and working on your testimony.

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Prepare for Your Hearing

Hearings take place in court and are open to the public. If possible, it may be helpful to observe a hearing virtually or in person so you know what to expect ahead of your own. Here are some important things to keep in mind for your hearing.

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Protection Orders and Firearm Removal

Washington state law allows courts to order the temporary removal of firearms, and establish firearm prohibitions for the restrained party, when entering a protection order. Petitioners can formally request the removal of firearms in their protection order petition or a judge can order the removal of firearms if they believe the restrained person’s access to or ownership of firearms poses an immediate threat to public safety, to an individual or if other conditions are met.

What is the process for requesting firearm removal?

  • When filling out the Petition for Protection Order, indicate in “Section 12” and/or ‘Section O’, your request for surrender/prohibition of weapons.
  • When attending ex parte court, the judge can order the temporary removal of firearms and a prohibition from firearms, if they believe the restrained person’s guns pose an immediate threat to public safety or an individual.
  • At the full court hearing, the judge can issue an Order to Surrender & Prohibit Weapons (OTSW). After an OTSW is issued, the respondent may not possess, control, access, purchase or receive firearms for the duration of the order and must immediately turn in any and all firearms (or any other dangerous weapons) and concealed pistol licenses to the police. Law enforcement will hold and properly store the items while the order is in place.

What is the process for physical removal of firearms?

  • When an OTSW is issued, respondents must immediately surrender all firearms and dangerous weapons to the law enforcement officer serving the protection order.
  • At the time of surrender, a law enforcement officer taking possession of firearms, dangerous weapons, and any concealed pistol license shall issue a receipt identifying everything that was surrendered and provide a copy of the receipt to the respondent.
  • The law enforcement agency shall file the original receipt with the court within 24 hours after service of the order and retain a copy of the receipt, electronically whenever electronic filing is available.

Frequently Asked Questions

Will I be able to include my children on the protection order?

Petitioners can ask the court to include their children as protected parties on the order. In cases where the children are in common with the restrained person, the court can include provisions to protect children and may include temporary custody or visitation considerations but a protection order is not a formal “child custody order” or parenting plan. For more information, visit our FAQs or talk to a lawyer or advocate.

Is firearm removal part of protection orders?

Yes, courts in Washington state can order the removal of firearms as part of a protection order. Petitioners can request the removal of firearms on the protection order form. A judge can then order the removal of firearms if they believe the abuser’s guns pose an immediate threat to public safety or an individual.

Can I file a protection order if I am an undocumented immigrant?

Yes, but you may want to talk with an advocate or attorney before filing, if possible, so you can make an informed decision about whether to file or not. The Federal Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) provides “that all battered immigrant women have full access to protection orders, can report domestic violence crimes, and can have their abusers prosecuted in the same matter as any other battered woman even if they do not have legal immigration status. Speak with a lawyer for more information.

What happens if my protection order is violated?

  • In Washington State, violating a protection order is treated as a serious offense with significant legal consequences. Respondents are subject to mandatory arrest for knowing violation of certain provisions with possible criminal or contempt charges.
  • If the respondent has access to or possesses firearm(s) while an Order to Surrender and Prohibit Weapons is in effect could result in arrest and criminal or civil penalties.
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